Did I build the wrong life?

You Aren't Stuck. You're Avoiding Discomfort.

Those are two different problems, and you've been solving the wrong one.

Jun 4 • Aliyah Vasquez

When You Stop Pretending, Some People Can't Handle It

Not everyone survives your becoming with you.

Apr 30 • Aliyah Vasquez

Everyone thought we were thriving.

I was crying in the shower every morning for almost a full year.

Mar 19 • Aliyah Vasquez

The Life That Looks Perfect on Paper

When everything checks out and nothing feels right

Feb 10 • Aliyah Vasquez

The Life You Built to Prove You’re Responsible Is Killing You

Everything looked right. That was the problem.

Jan 31 • Aliyah Vasquez

This Is Why Mid-Becoming Exists

For the woman who is tired of watching everyone perform their healing while she's actually in the middle of hers.

Jan 11 • Aliyah Vasquez

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